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If you have visited Outskirts then it would be great to hear from you and how you enjoyed your time with us.
If you have visited Outskirts then it would be great to hear from you and how you enjoyed your time with us.
28 Name: Sarah Date: 4th August 2021 Subject: Hi Sally, Just wanted to let you know I met up with some of the girls on Mon evening - they were all really friendly, so thanks for your encouragement. I hope to come along again in Sept. Thanks so much! Sarah.
27 Name: Chrissy Rholf Date: 31st July 2019 Subject: Thanks Sally for the Party night, I wish I had been with Outskirts all those years ago, still I have had four good years with all of you and hopefully many more to come. Well done Equator bar for good music and food. xxxxxx
26 Name: Lisa Barthorpe Date: 31st July 2019 Subject: So sorry I missed your anniversary party. I first went to Outskirts in December 2013. A very scared new person looking for a direction in a life I didn't understand but meeting you all gave me a belief that I could be who I wanted to be. Those who know me know that there is a great life after transition but I will never forget my first Monday night and the help and just a smile from you all.
Lisa xxx
Lisa xxx
25 Name: Louisa Date: 31st July 2019 Subject: Hi Sally, Just seen on the web site that the Group's now 20 years young - CONGRATULATIONS to you all especially you and Larna who also both made me feel so welcome when I worked and lived in Birmingham. I'll never forget the years I had with you all and consider you all to be my friends
God bless you all and I hope that you all find contentment and love in the years to come
Sincerely yours
Marcia (now Louisa)
PS: Give Tex a big hug from me when you next see him in Equator, he looked very elegant in that blue jacket and tie and also remember me to Josh, he also looked good and finally Michelle, my erstwhile sister
God bless you all and I hope that you all find contentment and love in the years to come
Sincerely yours
Marcia (now Louisa)
PS: Give Tex a big hug from me when you next see him in Equator, he looked very elegant in that blue jacket and tie and also remember me to Josh, he also looked good and finally Michelle, my erstwhile sister
24 Name: Sharon Date: 5th June 2018 Subject: Hello Hi to you all. Firstly Sally. What a awesome website you have put together. First time I've seen it. Credit goes to you. So many memories and great Christmas party's. Outskirts is where it all started for me. Made so many great friends. So if anyone new is reading this and needs support. You've come to the right place.
Sharon x x x
Sharon x x x
23 Name: Gemma Hodgkiss Date: 4th June 2018 Subject: Hello Hi guys and gals ... saw this new website, lots of happy memories. Hope you're all keeping well xxx
22 Name: Andrea Date: 5th Dec 2015 Subject: Hello & Greetings Hi, To all Tgirls at Outskirts , Monday Group, wishing you all
a very Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year. Hugs and best wishes, Andrea
a very Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year. Hugs and best wishes, Andrea
21 Name: Devon & Alana Date: 17th Dec 2014 Subject: Christmas Party Sally, Just a quick message to say a BIG 'thank you' to you and your team who worked so hard to produce a fantastic Christmas Party on Monday. It was our first visit to Outskirts and we loved it. Everyone was so friendly and the room was very festive. We enjoyed the food and even had a dance (or three!!) As I said, it was our first visit to Outskirts and although we come from Doncaster and Leicester, we will definitely see you in 2015. Have a great Christmas and New Year. Love, Devon and Alana
20 Name: Charmaine Jones Date: 22nd Jan 2013 Subject: My First Visit To Outskirts Hi everyone I'm Charmaine Jones and i went to my first visit to BIRMINGHAM OUTSKIRTS on monday 8pm at Equator, i was allowed to use the facilities to change very nice mirrors in the loos. I met sofie james she was wonderful helping me put my dress on.I sat down and got chatting to the girls, Everyone was friendly, i met Larna whose wonderful she came over and told me what the group was about, what the group did etc etc.I met Sally as well who introduced herself to me, there were lots of beautiful girls of all ages,i was made to feel especially welcome to the point i had my photo taken with every girl there. I sat in with different groups of girls we all shared our stories of when we started crossdressing etc.I found it beneficial everyone was genuine no false airs or graces i went on my own and was very welcomed and debe helped me by introducing me to girls when i felt shy, I love this group and would definitely go back again.
19 Name: Lucy Date: 22nd January 2013 Subject: Thank You I went out as Lucy for the first time last night and the girls at Outskirts were just great. Dee came to chat to me and she was so kind and lovely it was like she was an old friend. I had the best night of my life and when I got back to the hotel I got in the lift and a man got in with me. I wasn't freaked out though I was on such a high and when he held the door open for me I think I blushed! I feel reborn today and can't wait for the next meeting. Lucy xx
it was odd I was scared to start with but once there it was so natural it was like I'd been doing it for years! I really had the best night of my life and although I can't make Feb 4 ill be back as soon as I can. Thanks again xx
it was odd I was scared to start with but once there it was so natural it was like I'd been doing it for years! I really had the best night of my life and although I can't make Feb 4 ill be back as soon as I can. Thanks again xx
18 Name: Jess Date: 22nd Jun 2011 Subject: Thank You Hi Sally, Monday was not only my first time at the meet but also my first time being seen by anyone cross-dressed in the flesh. The experience left me with quite a buzz and has given me a big boost in confidence. It was fun thing to do on my birthday and I am keen to come again soon knowing that it will be different and a little easier as I become a familiar face. Jess
17 Name: Andrea Beddoes Date: 8th Dec 2010 Subject: Everyone Hi girls, had a really nice/Fab time Monday evening....hope to see you all at the Christmas Party...special thanks to Larna, Sally and Faith for making me feel very welcome...on my first social...thanks Girls...take care all once again many thanks and see you at the party...hugs Andrea x
16 Name: Susan Page Date: 19th Feb 2008 Subject: Thank You I just wish to sincerely thank you and all the other girls at outskirts for making me feel so welcome last night, indeed I was made to feel as though I wasn't a new girl but someone everyone already knew. On my way home I felt what I'm sure many others have felt before me, "why didn't I do this before?" I can't promise to be at every meet because finances have been particularly tight of late but I do intend doing my very best to attend at least one meet each month. I feel exhilarated, I've been out as Sue. I can't thank you and the girls enough. As you will have known from last night I am not confident enough to walk along the streets as Sue yet but hopefully in time that will come, at least I have made a start.
I have spoken to a friend of mine earlier today and tried to explain my exhilaration that yesterday evening produced and they have said they would like to attend the next meet.
See you on the 3rd March. Sue x
I have spoken to a friend of mine earlier today and tried to explain my exhilaration that yesterday evening produced and they have said they would like to attend the next meet.
See you on the 3rd March. Sue x
15 Name: June Collins Date: 17th Oct 2007 Subject: Monday Night
Was in Birmingham last Monday and I visited the Victoria that night. Met up with two other girls there who were visitors also. Had a great night and afterwards went to the Village Inn with one of them, a girl called Suzi.
I want to compliment you on your support group and nice premises and the warm welcoming attitude of your members. Makes a big change from much of what I have experienced in other places. Support groups and venues such as yours are deserving of the most positive affirmation.
Keep up the good work and I'll be back in the new year.
June
Was in Birmingham last Monday and I visited the Victoria that night. Met up with two other girls there who were visitors also. Had a great night and afterwards went to the Village Inn with one of them, a girl called Suzi.
I want to compliment you on your support group and nice premises and the warm welcoming attitude of your members. Makes a big change from much of what I have experienced in other places. Support groups and venues such as yours are deserving of the most positive affirmation.
Keep up the good work and I'll be back in the new year.
June
14 Name: June Connors Date: 11th Aug 2007 Subject: Birmingham Visit Hi everyone,
I'm June, I come from Tipperary (it's a long way to// as in the song ) in Ireland and I'm a life long crossdresser. Like so many of us, the Internet opened up a whole new world for me. As I am a fashion addict, I love to see girls turned out in beautiful clothes and looking ladylike and feminine.
One such site that I happened to stumble on was, “Angle Flicker”. Fed up with sites that presented crossdressers in a less than tasteful way, it was a joy to browse the many pictures of feminine beauty that this wonderful site contained. One such photo belonged to a Sally Payne. Looking at this photo presently led me to the “Outskirts” web site and subsequently onto the single most beautiful collection of girls, that I have ever seen.
I resolved there and then that sooner rather than later, I would travel to Birmingham and see for myself those gorgeous beauties, So thanks to the much maligned Ryan Air, I was able to make my way to Birmingham on a one cent / one penny fare and I booked my accommodation in the Ibis Hotel which Sally informed me by email was, “special girl” friendly.
Nice to be able to say that my experiences in Birmingham were totally positive. No sooner had I emerged from New Street station, feeling and looking lost, when a retired gentleman who noticed me, came to my assistance and directed me to the Ibis hotel. Although I had other business to do in town, my priority was to get to the Victoria bar for the Outskirts meeting. I had intended to go to the Victoria and change and do my make up there. So I packed my gear and off I set. A girl having a smoke outside the door told me that the meeting was not upstairs tonight, but in the lounge area. Feeling a little dispondant, I turned around and headed back to my hotel room.. At this stage my intention was to forget the whole mission and have an early night.
Feeling like a proper failure, I threw my carrier bag down on the bed. Where was my courage now when I needed it more than ever? Then I told myself that this was hardly the reason for my coming to Birmingham, to stay in my hotel room all alone. So I resolved there and then that I was going through with it, whatever happened I was going to be in the Victoria tonight. So down I sat, did my make up, dressed, grabbed my handbag and headed for the lift. (It wasn't as simple as that). Nothing was going to stop me now. The hotel reception was empty as I stepped out onto Ladywell Walk. With each step my confidence increased. No one paid the slightest attention to me as I walked the short journey to John Bright street. When I stepped into the lounge of the Victoria, I felt such a sense of achievement and homecomming.
On your website, you describe your group as being friendly and welcoming and that is certainly true. I was approached immediately on entering by a lovely girl who welcomed me warmly. Then the lovely Larna came over to me and invited me to her table. Sorry for not taking up the offer but shyness is a problem for me while either femme or male. And compliments too to the bar staff, so warm and friendly.
I walked with the girls back down the street. They were going on to enjoy more of the night while I, happy with what I had accomplished, headed back for my hotel. Larna took a photo of me outside the Hippodrome and wishing each other well we parted company. As I walked the last few steps to the Ibis, a young girl approached me selling the magazine, Big Issue. “Excuse me ma'am !!!!!!!You're not---------”. “No”, I interrupted her in a joking manner, “Don't tell me about 'big issues', ----------- can't you see that I have plenty of big issues myself”, Out of politeness, I bought the magazine and it was worth it just to hear her say,-- “Thank you love”
A huge “thank you” to all the girls and a massive “thank you” to Larna. And who knows, I might be back sooner than you think.
Love and best wishes -- June
I'm June, I come from Tipperary (it's a long way to// as in the song ) in Ireland and I'm a life long crossdresser. Like so many of us, the Internet opened up a whole new world for me. As I am a fashion addict, I love to see girls turned out in beautiful clothes and looking ladylike and feminine.
One such site that I happened to stumble on was, “Angle Flicker”. Fed up with sites that presented crossdressers in a less than tasteful way, it was a joy to browse the many pictures of feminine beauty that this wonderful site contained. One such photo belonged to a Sally Payne. Looking at this photo presently led me to the “Outskirts” web site and subsequently onto the single most beautiful collection of girls, that I have ever seen.
I resolved there and then that sooner rather than later, I would travel to Birmingham and see for myself those gorgeous beauties, So thanks to the much maligned Ryan Air, I was able to make my way to Birmingham on a one cent / one penny fare and I booked my accommodation in the Ibis Hotel which Sally informed me by email was, “special girl” friendly.
Nice to be able to say that my experiences in Birmingham were totally positive. No sooner had I emerged from New Street station, feeling and looking lost, when a retired gentleman who noticed me, came to my assistance and directed me to the Ibis hotel. Although I had other business to do in town, my priority was to get to the Victoria bar for the Outskirts meeting. I had intended to go to the Victoria and change and do my make up there. So I packed my gear and off I set. A girl having a smoke outside the door told me that the meeting was not upstairs tonight, but in the lounge area. Feeling a little dispondant, I turned around and headed back to my hotel room.. At this stage my intention was to forget the whole mission and have an early night.
Feeling like a proper failure, I threw my carrier bag down on the bed. Where was my courage now when I needed it more than ever? Then I told myself that this was hardly the reason for my coming to Birmingham, to stay in my hotel room all alone. So I resolved there and then that I was going through with it, whatever happened I was going to be in the Victoria tonight. So down I sat, did my make up, dressed, grabbed my handbag and headed for the lift. (It wasn't as simple as that). Nothing was going to stop me now. The hotel reception was empty as I stepped out onto Ladywell Walk. With each step my confidence increased. No one paid the slightest attention to me as I walked the short journey to John Bright street. When I stepped into the lounge of the Victoria, I felt such a sense of achievement and homecomming.
On your website, you describe your group as being friendly and welcoming and that is certainly true. I was approached immediately on entering by a lovely girl who welcomed me warmly. Then the lovely Larna came over to me and invited me to her table. Sorry for not taking up the offer but shyness is a problem for me while either femme or male. And compliments too to the bar staff, so warm and friendly.
I walked with the girls back down the street. They were going on to enjoy more of the night while I, happy with what I had accomplished, headed back for my hotel. Larna took a photo of me outside the Hippodrome and wishing each other well we parted company. As I walked the last few steps to the Ibis, a young girl approached me selling the magazine, Big Issue. “Excuse me ma'am !!!!!!!You're not---------”. “No”, I interrupted her in a joking manner, “Don't tell me about 'big issues', ----------- can't you see that I have plenty of big issues myself”, Out of politeness, I bought the magazine and it was worth it just to hear her say,-- “Thank you love”
A huge “thank you” to all the girls and a massive “thank you” to Larna. And who knows, I might be back sooner than you think.
Love and best wishes -- June
13 Name: Chloe Date: 13th Aug 2007 Subject: Re: Your first visit to Outskirts Hi Sally,
You are right...............to find the words to describe the feelings and emotions that I felt last Monday night would be almost impossible.
The time spent at the Loft Lounge was especially enjoyable. To be with such a group of gorgeous girls and be so 'out in the open' felt exhilarating.
As you can imaging sleep took a long time to come...................I had so many things to think about and reflect upon..............and my mind was racing ahead to the things that may open up for me.
I have taken the time to look at some of the photo's on your flickr page and they highlight and reinforce that belief.
Now that I have been 'out' once I am suffering from that afflictions that all t-girls suffer from at this stage....................I WANT TO GO OUT AGAIN !!
Love and hugs,
Chloe xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
12 Name: Sally Payne Date: 11th Aug 2007 Subject: Your first visit to Outskirts Thanks girls for such lovely emails, I'm so pleased that you had such a great time. Well done Chloe for taking that first step - cloud 9 doesn't quite do it justice does it - did you manage to sleep that night!!!
You are right...............to find the words to describe the feelings and emotions that I felt last Monday night would be almost impossible.
The time spent at the Loft Lounge was especially enjoyable. To be with such a group of gorgeous girls and be so 'out in the open' felt exhilarating.
As you can imaging sleep took a long time to come...................I had so many things to think about and reflect upon..............and my mind was racing ahead to the things that may open up for me.
I have taken the time to look at some of the photo's on your flickr page and they highlight and reinforce that belief.
Now that I have been 'out' once I am suffering from that afflictions that all t-girls suffer from at this stage....................I WANT TO GO OUT AGAIN !!
Love and hugs,
Chloe xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
12 Name: Sally Payne Date: 11th Aug 2007 Subject: Your first visit to Outskirts Thanks girls for such lovely emails, I'm so pleased that you had such a great time. Well done Chloe for taking that first step - cloud 9 doesn't quite do it justice does it - did you manage to sleep that night!!!
11 Name: Chloe Date: Thur 9th Aug 2007 Subject: Outskirts first visit Hi Sally,
As Jenny said we had a fantastic evening on Monday...............I felt as if I was walking on air all evening (even in 5" heels LOL)
As you can imagine, as it was my first evening out, I was quite nervous.
Those nerves evaporated almost immediately because of the wonderfully warm and friendly welcome we both received.
I don't think I could have wished to have met a more wonderful group of girls.
Could you also pass on my warmest thanks to Larna and tell all those others I didn't get to chat to that I look forward to getting to know them as time goes on.
Take care and I look forward to seeing you soon.
Chloe xxxx
As Jenny said we had a fantastic evening on Monday...............I felt as if I was walking on air all evening (even in 5" heels LOL)
As you can imagine, as it was my first evening out, I was quite nervous.
Those nerves evaporated almost immediately because of the wonderfully warm and friendly welcome we both received.
I don't think I could have wished to have met a more wonderful group of girls.
Could you also pass on my warmest thanks to Larna and tell all those others I didn't get to chat to that I look forward to getting to know them as time goes on.
Take care and I look forward to seeing you soon.
Chloe xxxx
10 Name: Jenny Ford Date: Tue 7th Aug 2007 Subject: Outskirts first visit Hi Sally,
Chloe and I had a great evening on Monday, I've written a post about my experience in my blog. You're welcome to link to it from the Outskirts site if you think it will be helpful for anyone else visiting the site.
Pass on my thanks to Larna and I hope to see you soon.
Jenny x
Chloe and I had a great evening on Monday, I've written a post about my experience in my blog. You're welcome to link to it from the Outskirts site if you think it will be helpful for anyone else visiting the site.
Pass on my thanks to Larna and I hope to see you soon.
Jenny x
9 Name: Paula Date: Sun 11 Feb 2007 Subject: Visit of Gloscats Hi,
Just to say what a lovely evening Cindy, Billie and I had on 5th February,
well done to all of you and thank you for making us so welcome.
We were sad to leave, especially as we were invited to join you at
Glamorous, perhaps another time?
We in Gloucs are busy planning the launch of "our" new venue and there
shall be an open invitation to you all !!!
xxxxxx Paula
Just to say what a lovely evening Cindy, Billie and I had on 5th February,
well done to all of you and thank you for making us so welcome.
We were sad to leave, especially as we were invited to join you at
Glamorous, perhaps another time?
We in Gloucs are busy planning the launch of "our" new venue and there
shall be an open invitation to you all !!!
xxxxxx Paula
8 Name: Trish Diamond Date: Fri 29 Dec 2006 Subject: Christmas Party Wow!! What a fab party I missed out on - my brother Phil said it was a groovy turn out and that he enjoyed playing the tunes, can't wait to see the photos. Hope to see you in the new year at our first meeting in January!!
Love you loads!!!
Trish XXX
Love you loads!!!
Trish XXX
7 Name: Sarah Date: Tue 26 Dec 2006 Subject: Well done Girls! Hi Girls,
I agree with Lana's message above, your site is wonderful. My intention was to attend a meeting at the St. Michael's group in Powke Lane, Rowley Regis (local to me, I'm in Stourbridge) however they ended before I plucked up the courage. In hindsight, it would never have happened; my closet is large and I have no idea where the exit is. I admire each and everyone one of you, you're an inspiration.
Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year
Sarah x
I agree with Lana's message above, your site is wonderful. My intention was to attend a meeting at the St. Michael's group in Powke Lane, Rowley Regis (local to me, I'm in Stourbridge) however they ended before I plucked up the courage. In hindsight, it would never have happened; my closet is large and I have no idea where the exit is. I admire each and everyone one of you, you're an inspiration.
Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year
Sarah x
6 Name: petrova goldsbury Date: Thu 07 Dec 2006 Subject: hi hi, luv site. i will come and visit you soon
5 Name: lana Date: Fri 13 Oct 2006 Subject: very inspired hiya until recently i didn't have a computer or internet access, i'm now realising just how many people enjoy what i love, which is dressing and acting like a girl. i used to think it was just little me but after seeing various sites on the net i have been very inspired. i love your site and think what you do is amazing. I am very much considering coming along even though i havn't been out dressed in public before, its something i am constantly thinking about doing.
hope you are all well
Lana x
hope you are all well
Lana x
4 Name: gemma Date: Thu 12 Oct 2006 Subject: hiyas great website keep up for good work girls !!!!!!!! (( Hugs xxxx ))
3 Name: Rico Paris Date: Wed 04 Oct 2006 Subject: Comments on website Hi Folks,
Had a look at the new website today and just wanted to say what a good job you have done.
We shall continue to make clients who contact Gender-Matters (formerly Trans-Shropshire) from your area aware of your services and direct them to your website.
Best wishes - Rico
Had a look at the new website today and just wanted to say what a good job you have done.
We shall continue to make clients who contact Gender-Matters (formerly Trans-Shropshire) from your area aware of your services and direct them to your website.
Best wishes - Rico
2 Name: Sally Withers Date: Thu 14 Sep 2006 Subject: Just saying hallo! I left Birmingham back in 1969, and it brings back memories just looking at the location map. But, even that's changed from how I knew it. Mica has said (on the Angels forum) that I should come back - and I think she's right. Just for a visit, though!
Big hugs from a Brummie girl now in Hampshire!
Sally Withers XXX
Big hugs from a Brummie girl now in Hampshire!
Sally Withers XXX
1 Name: Sally Payne Date: Fri 01 Sep 2006 Subject: Welcome Just a test message to welcome our new guest book :)
Hugs, Sally :)
Hugs, Sally :)